tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797189263680442405.post76925115188339995..comments2016-02-23T10:59:26.684-08:00Comments on Losing our Itty Bitty Liddy: First post of 2015Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18198371606129569079noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797189263680442405.post-83386378816139915582015-03-04T20:07:52.253-08:002015-03-04T20:07:52.253-08:00We are trying to figure out what to do for our bab...We are trying to figure out what to do for our babies due date - go somewhere or stay home, be around people be by ourselves... I think I have an understand of some of what you describe here. I do not understand how I used to be able to know what I would want to do ahead of time. How could I possibly predict my mental state enough to know that I wouldn't feel anxious around people or need to sob? Things were definitely different a few months ago... Thanks for posting and I hope your renewed blogging is a help to you.junebughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10925785225181424740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797189263680442405.post-48997002760430081642015-01-13T16:59:20.659-08:002015-01-13T16:59:20.659-08:00Thank you both for your words of encouragement. I...Thank you both for your words of encouragement. It's strange that its gotten more difficult the last 2 months. I'm hoping that after all of these "firsts" things will get a little easier. I appreciate all of you and your words to help me through. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18198371606129569079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797189263680442405.post-51688603142675789222015-01-13T16:25:05.883-08:002015-01-13T16:25:05.883-08:00Hi Hun. Happy New Year to you and Kevin. So glad t...Hi Hun. Happy New Year to you and Kevin. So glad to see a post from you - I understand about not being in the blogging mood. I get like that too. Just do what feels right to you.<br />Anyway, I like your ideas for remembering your Lydia. Especially the random acts of kindness. Such a beautiful thing to do in her name. It will be a tough day for you, just be kind to yourself - if something feels like too much, don't do it. <br />Sending lots of light and hope that 2015 is better for us. Hugs.<br />andthewindscreamsmaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03775759431772006480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797189263680442405.post-34591275668672678572015-01-13T05:31:21.169-08:002015-01-13T05:31:21.169-08:00I struggled with this the first year, too. I like ...I struggled with this the first year, too. I like to have a tree planted in his memory at a National Park every year. There is a organization called The Trees Remember dot org that we use.<br />For me, I like the idea of life growing in Nathan's name. <br /><br />You'll find a way to honor your Lydia that feels right to you.<br /><br />Good luck and my heart is with you.RHMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11288679777324292266noreply@blogger.com