tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797189263680442405.post5854954504065552233..comments2016-02-23T10:59:26.684-08:00Comments on Losing our Itty Bitty Liddy: Self pitty Monday-Carried over to tuesdayAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18198371606129569079noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797189263680442405.post-73445314513304839922014-12-03T07:14:35.144-08:002014-12-03T07:14:35.144-08:00Thank you for saying this. On days like that, its...Thank you for saying this. On days like that, its hard for me to remember that things will eventually get a little easier. I feel like everytime it starts something knocks me back down to the ground. Then I spend the next few months picking myself back up again, only for it to happen again. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18198371606129569079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797189263680442405.post-13375514912478680792014-12-03T07:13:09.770-08:002014-12-03T07:13:09.770-08:00Thank you so much for this! I was so hurt when he ...Thank you so much for this! I was so hurt when he threw the quitter comment at me. As a women that holds herself at very high standards and has worked hard for everything, to call me a quitter just shakes me to the core. I am not a quitter, I'm wounded. I too reminded him that he didnt feel her, he loved her yes, but its my body. It's my body that the poison ran through, it my body that released the poison that killed her. We know theres nothing wrong with him. We do not know there's nothing wrong with me. Sometimes I feel like he understands me so well and others I just want to shake him and say stop humoring me! You dont get it!! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18198371606129569079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797189263680442405.post-3908358757438492222014-12-02T17:18:28.416-08:002014-12-02T17:18:28.416-08:00I am two years removed from the death of Nathan so...I am two years removed from the death of Nathan so I want to tell you that it does get better. I know it's such a cliche thing to say but, I think it's important I tell you this. <br /><br />Your darling Lydia's death is still so fresh and I want you to know that you're doing great. It may not feel like it right now but, take it from someone who has been there. <br /><br />Your'e here writing and I hope it's cathartic. Take it easy on yourself and feel whatever you have to feel this Christmas. Please do what's best for you.RHMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11288679777324292266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5797189263680442405.post-90922788498352513922014-12-02T16:27:16.745-08:002014-12-02T16:27:16.745-08:00I have had all of these same thoughts too. Even th...I have had all of these same thoughts too. Even the thoughts about dying myself. And my husband has throwing the quitter comment at me too. But I remind him, that I was the one that had to have two procedures - I was the one that physically went through the pregnancy and went through the hormonal changes. So while I know he is sad and wishes that things ended up differently, he doesn't really feel the same way I do - and how could he? They just want to fix us, and sometimes they think that having another baby will be a magic fix. But it really isn't. You will always miss Liddy and that's okay. <br />I am so excited for you that you only have this last week at work. Soon enough you will have all the time you need to work on yourself, physically and mentally.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com